March 11, 2005
All girls are not easy to deal with
I think there has been a crisis recently in my relationship since we are geographically separate from each other and my girlfriend's accusation of me being androcentrism.
She claims that I like lecturing her and not romantic, not sensitive, worse than her friends' boy friends.
Merely, I care about her academic achievement more than others. Well, that what her mother prefers and are happy with. But she seems not quite so motivated and spends enough time on her work, so I think it's my responsibilities to remind her. Perhapes i should not do it because i am her parents. I have been thinking this a lot and decided not to stop doing this because it is very important that she will get a place in a decent university in London or anywhere else. At the moment, I think she should be working a lot harder.
Am I wrong? I find it very hard to deal with my girl friend since I am not "sensitive", "romantic", "caring" etc... YES YES YES, I AM NOT!!!
I am not that sort of persons who always has so many things to say, but my girlfriend is. FINE, this makes me a good listener isn't it? But she complains that don't call her everyday, don't have as many things to tell as she does, don't care about her...
Oh... I don't want to say anymore about it, it is very complicated. Girls are all not easy to deal with, aren't they? 
Actually, to some extend I like to be in a marriage more than in a relationship. I am too realistic, so... although I am very handsome & charming(joking
), but have not had many girlfriends. For example, now i care about girlfriend's future other than how can we play around and be happy with each other.
As a result of being androcentrism, I should get a girl that is easy to deal with, where can I find one?? (Forget about this question, just joking, I will always love you, OK?)
